The Toxic Fuel That’s Destroying Your Motivation - Dr K HealthyGamer

Chris Williamson October 16, 2025
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Go see Chris live in America - https://chriswilliamson.live Dr K is a psychiatrist, Harvard Medical School instructor, co-founder of Healthy GamerGG, Twitch streamer and a YouTuber. Why are we driven by what destroys us? Using anger or jealousy can spark our motivation, but when it goes too far, it consumes us. What are healthier ways to stay motivated, and how do we find peace instead of pressure? Expect to learn why mean have become less dangerous and more useless, why toxic motivation is on the rise and how to not fall into it’s trap, why incel violence is not a bad as it could be, how to structure your motivation so it’s actually healthy, why so many men are obsessed with penis size, what women actually find attractive in a man, if having a dad-bod makes you a better dad, the dangers of bro science, why men cry at certain point in weddings and much more… - 0:00 Toxic Fuel Motivates Us 11:29 Why Men Go from Sad to Mad 22:24 Are Porn and Video Games Making Men Useless? 30:16 Why We Need Different Fuel at Different Stages 40:09 The Benefits of Beginning Again 50:04 Harnessing the Power of Meditation 01:04:18 Why We Should Stretch Ourselves 01:17:06 Does Muscle Mass Lead to Unsuccessful Relationships? 01:33:27 Why are Dad Bods Attractive? 01:39:17 Are Acts of Kindness Motivated by Toxic Fuel? 01:48:55 Sl*t-Shaming and Simp-Shaming are Mostly Intrasexual 01:59:21 Why We Use Boundaries as Protection 02:07:42 How Do Men and Women Differ in Relationships? 02:17:46 What Makes Grooms Cry? 02:22:36 ChatGPT Tells You What You Want to Hear 02:30:50 How to Find Your True Self 02:45:01 Chris’ Journey With His Sense of Self 02:51:07 Where to Find Dr K - Get a Free Sample Pack of LMNT’s most popular flavours with your first purchase at https://drinklmnt.com/modernwisdom Get 5 Free Travel Packs, Free Liquid Vitamin D, and more from AG1 at https://ag1.info/modernwisdom Get a 20% discount on Nomatic’s amazing luggage at https://nomatic.com/modernwisdom Get 35% off your first subscription on the best supplements from Momentous at https://livemomentous.com/modernwisdom - Get access to every episode 10 hours before YouTube by subscribing for free on Spotify - https://spoti.fi/2LSimPn or Apple Podcasts - https://apple.co/2MNqIgw Get my free Reading List of 100 life-changing books here - https://chriswillx.com/books/ Try my productivity energy drink Neutonic here - https://neutonic.com/modernwisdom - Get in touch in the comments below or head to... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx Email: https://chriswillx.com/contact/

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