AVOIDANT ATTACHMENT: DEACTIVATION AND AUTONOMY. | DR. KIM SAGE

Dr. Kim Sage, Licensed Psychologist May 31, 2023
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Dr. Kim Sage, Licensed Psychologist

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ONLINE COURSES licensed clinical psychologist in CA (#29089) and due to licensing & insurance can only see patients in CA. I share content about parents with emotional immaturity, narcissistic/borderline pd’s, attachment/relationships, autism, trauma… Courses https://drkimsage.thinkific.com/ 🌷Raised By Eggshell Parents: How To Heal Your Hypervigilant Trauma Response🌷 🌷Identifying Invisible Wounds 🌷 🌷Remothering Yourself🌷 🌷Healing and Dealing with Narcissistic and Borderline l Parents🌷 If you or someone you know is a danger to themselves or someone else, please call an emergency number/immediately to the nearest ER. Information provided on this channel is neither intended nor implied to be a substitute for professional medical or psychological advice or as a therapeutic relationship, or to make medical decisions.

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This video describes and identifies how people who may have Avoidant Attachment patterns use distancing and autonomy-enforcing strategies to sabotage connection. *FOR MORE INFORMATION ONLINE COURSES AND FREE CHECKLIST: https://www.drsagehelp.com ************************** Please check out my courses (LINK ABOVE): 1. BORDERLINE AND NARCISSISTIC PARENTS: HEALING AND DEALING WITH YOUR TRAUMA (*This course is designed specifically for you if you were raised by parents who had Narcissistic, Borderline or significantly Emotionally Immature parents.) 2. RE-MOTHERED: TRANSFORM YOUR WOUNDED INNER CHILD INTO AN INTERNALIZED, LOVING "MOTHER" (***This course is designed to help you learn to heal your inner child AND your inner parent if you experienced a complicated childhood or challenging relational wounds). 3. IDENTIFYING CHILDHOOD EMOTIONAL ABUSE AND NEGLECT (FREE COURSE) CHECKLIST IS INCLUDED IN ALL 3 COURSES!!** xo ***Please note! I am so sorry but my practice is full at this time and I cannot accept new patients. If you would like to be added to my waitlist, please email me at [email protected] and I will email you only when a spot becomes available. I cannot guarantee a spot will open, however, so please know I care very much, but am limited at this time given my case load. * Additionally, I am only able to work with California residents (due to state licensing and insurance requirements for myself) for weekly therapy once available. If you are interested, please also add in a few brief details in your email including your reasons for seeking treatment, current diagnoses, concerns, etc.

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