Borderlines: No Win Relationships, BPD Enigmas Decoded
Prof. Sam Vaknin
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Professor of Psychology, Business Management in CIAPS (Cambridge, Birmingham UK; Ontario, Canada; Lagos, Nigeria), SEEU (Visiting, N. Macedonia). Click on links below: smear campaign rebutted + my work, credentials in psychology. PhD in Physics. Visiting Professor of Psychology, Southern Federal University, Rostov-on-Don, Russia (2017-22). Former economic advisor to governments, multinationals. Founder Healthcare Committee, Macedonia. Columnist, editor. Narcissist or Psychopath in your life? Subject to abuse, heartbreak, dysfunctional relationships, violence, intimidation, stalking, or harassment? This is the channel for you: insider info, evidence-based tips, and time-tested advice. Based on the bible of narcissism: "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by Sam Vaknin (1st edition 1999, 10th edition. in 2015). Resume/bio: http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/cv.html Tik-Tok https://www.tiktok.com/@narcissismwithvaknin?lang=en Twitter http://www.twitter.com/samvaknin
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Borderline twin anxieties: abandonment and engulfment Both put borderline in touch with her schizoid core (emptiness), negates her existence Approach-avoidance repetition compulsion Sudden change in behavior: At the beginning of the relationship, she feels focus of attention and in control (internal locus) Then, daily life gives rise to the twin anxieties (external locus) and she reacts with acting out (psychopathic self-state). Dual mothering In relationships with non-borderlines, narcissist and intimate partners are good enough maternal figures in a shared fantasy (“fake family”). In relationships with borderlines, the narcissist offers unconditional love and parentifies himself: the borderline is a dead mother and affords him a second chance to fix/heal/rescue/save her and, by extension, himself. Find and Buy MOST of my BOOKS and eBOOKS in my Amazon Store: https://www.amazon.com/stores/page/60F8EC8A-5812-4007-9F2C-DFA02EA713B3
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