Give Me 20 Minutes… I’ll Show You How Childhood Parenting Shaped Your Loneliness | Dr. Gabor Maté

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🔴 Give Me 20 Minutes… I’ll Show You How Childhood Parenting Shaped Your Loneliness | Dr. Gabor Maté.Give me 20 minutes… and I may be able to explain the loneliness you’ve carried for 20 years. In this deeply emotional and transformative video, Dr. Gabor Maté reveals how childhood parenting, emotional neglect, and disrupted attachment quietly shape our nervous system, relationships, and sense of self. This isn’t about blaming parents. It’s about finally understanding your pain with compassion. If you’ve ever struggled with: – feeling emotionally alone – people-pleasing – abandonment wounds – low self-worth – anxiety or numbness – relationship patterns you can’t explain This message may finally help your body make sense of what it’s been carrying. 🎧 This video includes original commentary for educational and transformative purposes under Fair Use. 💛 If this space supports your healing, you are welcome here. Timestamp. 00:00 – When Loneliness Quietly Begins 01:05 – Neglect vs Abuse (The Invisible Trauma) 03:50 – Why Secure Attachment Shapes Your Life 06:30 – Why Infants Need Physical Connection 09:10 – How Childhood Shapes Adult Relationships 12:20 – There Is No Such Thing as “Tough Love” 15:00 – Acting Out Is Emotional Language 17:40 – Why Play Was Taken From You 19:40 – Your Inner Child Is Still Waiting 21:00 – Healing Begins With Awareness ❣ NEED ONLINE THERAPY? We connect you with a licensed, online therapist: https://onlinetherapy.go2cloud.org/SHEL 🌱 My New Book is Here! ✨ Reclaiming You: How to Heal the Inner Child and Break Generational Trauma 📘 Available Now on Amazon. https://mybook.to/YourInnerChild If this video speaks to your heart, I wrote this book for you. 💛 👉 Get your free audiobook here: https://amzn.to/3GWRBf8 Get Gabor Maté’s books: 📚The Myth of Normal: https://amzn.to/3UHiUeQ ❤‍🩹Audible Gift Memberships: https://amzn.to/3WZp7Ey 👉 Get your free audiobook here: https://amzn.to/3GWRBf8 Get Dr Bessel van der Kolk books: 📚 The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma: https://amzn.to/3OLhnEc 🌟Footage licensed from Canva Pro: https://www.canva.com/help/licenses-copyright-legal-commercial-use/ 🌸 Little comforts matter too… If you’d like to explore cozy, affordable things to make your space feel softer and more peaceful, here’s a small gift for you: 🌱 Thank you for supporting this healing space gently. No pressure—just love. 💛 Watch Next: 🎬 Why 80% of Autoimmune Sufferers Are Women: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=taYVjQ0_ldA 🎬 How Being Too Nice Can Destroy You: A Story You've Never Heard: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xChNbQ2o0Ro 🎬 How To Express Your Anger in a Healthy Way: Expert Advice from Dr. Gabor Maté : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5aNRUxSC5sw Don't forget to like, subscribe, and hit the notification bell for more videos on mental health and healing. Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments below – we'd love to hear from you! 🙏 FAIR-USE COPYRIGHT DISCLAIMER * Copyright Disclaimer. This video contains copyrighted material used under the Fair Use Doctrine (Title 17 U.S.C. Section 107) for non-commercial, educational purposes, including commentary, criticism, news reporting, and research. All trademarks and copyrighted materials are the property of their respective owners. No copyright infringement is intended. Narration created with an AI voice (ElevenLabs). Dr. Gabor Maté’s audio is original. Excerpts used for commentary/education (fair use). 🔔Join this channel to get access to perks: https://bit.ly/3P1g5E4 🙏 Visit my Gentle Soul Sanctuary: https://bit.ly/45dumUe 🙏 Gentle Soul Sanctuary Boutique: https://bit.ly/3Po7615 🌺Feel free to buy me a smoothie here : https://www.buymeacoffee.com/kindness05 💖 Affiliate Disclaimer: As an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases. This means I may receive a small commission if you sign up for your free trial through this link, at no extra cost to you. Thank you for supporting my work and healing mission. #DrGaborMate, #InnerChildHealing, #EmotionalNeglect, #ChildhoodTrauma, #LonelinessHealing, #AttachmentWounds, #TraumaRecovery, #HealingJourney, #YourInnerChildMatters, #MentalHealthAwareness