Going 'No Contact' With Abusive Family Members #scapegoat #nocontact

Video Description

Psychotherapist and Family Systems expert Rebecca C. Mandeville (author of 'Rejected, Shamed, and Blamed: Help and Hope for Adults in the Family Scapegoat Role') explores issues related to limiting or going no contact with abusive family members through a trauma-informed lens. She also shares the results of a 'No Contact' poll that this channel's subscribers participated in, as well as one of the biggest myths about adult survivors who end ties with abusive family members or their scapegoating family system, whether temporarily or permanently. Join my online educational and peer-support community for FSA adult survivors on Substack. Learn more by visiting https://familyscapegoathealing.substack.com/about ✅ You can purchase my best-selling book on family scapegoating abuse (FSA), 'Rejected, Shamed, and Blamed', on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3sEaqcx. Or buy from your favorite online book retailer via this secure Universal Buy Link (UBL): https://books2read.com/intro2fsa. 🔥Trigger Warning: If you feel activated watching this video, turn it off and perhaps return to it at another time or consult a licensed Mental Health professional. Viewer comments may contain descriptions of child abuse and neglect and can also be activating. 💡Rebecca C. Mandeville is a thought leader and recognized expert in scapegoating and dysfunctional family systems. She is also the author of 'Rejected, Shamed, and Blamed: Help and Hope for Adults in the Family Scapegoat Role' and a clinical expert in YouTube's Health Partner Program specializing in Family Scapegoating Abuse (FSA) and Family Scapegoating Trauma (FST). 💡Learn more about SAMHSA's Six Principles of Trauma-Informed Care: https://opentextbc.ca/peersupport/chapter/samhsas-six-principles-of-trauma-informed-care/ 00:00 - Intro 01:07 - Subscriber Poll Results: Going no contact with family 02:00 - Why research on survivors' 'lived experience' matters 04:02 - When you know you're DONE 05:52 - Ending contact, rumination, and healing from FSA 06:45 - The Big Myth around ending contact 07:47 - Nervous system repair and creating a safe container 09:07 - Toxic shame and ending contact 10:19 - SAMHSA's Six Principles of Trauma-Informed Care 16:16 - Setting the intention to heal from trauma 19:00 - Educating therapists about FSA and trauma-informed care 💡Learn more about my work on FSA, my book, and my FSA recovery coaching services, visit https://scapegoatrecovery.com. 💡DISCLAIMER ONE: This channel's focus is on understanding and recovering from what I named 'family scapegoating abuse' (FSA). It is NOT a substitute for clinical assessment or treatment. It is suitable for both Adult Survivors and Clinicians. I am unable to advise you on your specific family situation. *READ FULL DISCLAIMER: https://www.scapegoatrecovery.com/youtube-disclaimer/* 🥰 FSA YouTube Community Page: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIyAJJIjX07beYqnUVIGPgw/community 💡DISCLAIMER TWO: Some of these links go to website and some are affiliate links where I'll earn a small commission if you make a purchase at no additional cost to you. ✅ *For media inquiries contact me at [email protected]* ✅ Let's connect: Website – https://www.scapegoatrecovery.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/FSARecovery =============================================================================== 💡 DISCLAIMER THREE: The education provided in these videos is GENERAL in nature and INFORMATIONAL only and should not be substituted for clinical care. You are advised to consult a Mental Health professional or Health Care provider regarding your specific situation. I am unable to answer questions regarding your specific situation, nor will I engage in diagnostics regarding people who are not my clients. 🔥 COPYRIGHT NOTICE: My videos focus exclusively on understanding and recovering from what I named 'family scapegoating abuse' (FSA) during the course of my academic and clinical research. THESE VIDEOS ARE COPYRIGHTED AND CANNOT BE SAMPLED AND USED FOR OTHER PURPOSES. =============================================================================== 🔴 *INTERNATIONAL SUICIDE HOTLINE: http://www.suicide.org/international-suicide-hotlines.html* =============================================================================== Copyright 2023 | Rebecca C. Mandeville | All Rights Reserved