HOW TO DEAL WITH DIFFICULT PEOPLE

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In this illuminating episode, Buddhist Meditation Teacher Kadam Rebecca challenges conventional wisdom about work-life balance. Rather than focusing on time management, she reveals how true equilibrium stems from our inner state of mind. Alongside fellow Teacher and host Kadam Adam, they explores how everyday challenges—especially difficult people—can become powerful catalysts for spiritual and personal transformation. They also dive into how developing a light, positive mindset can help us become a powerful force in the world. It’s not our job that defines us—it’s the inner work we do, so learn how keeping a peaceful heart and good intentions can fuel your energy and enthusiasm. Kadam Rebecca is the Resident Teacher at Tushita Kadampa Buddhist Center, Thousand Oaks, California. https://www.meditateinwestlake.org/ The participants of these podcasts are practicing meditation according to the New Kadampa Tradition, which has over a thousand meditation centers worldwide. See more https://kadampa.org/ 00:00 Introduction to Work-Life Balance Exploring the concept of work-life balance and the importance of controlling what you can while cherishing others. 01:12 The Power of Morning Meditation How meditation creates mental space and resilience for navigating daily challenges. 02:20 Dealing with Difficult Customers Strategies for handling challenging interactions and finding lessons in "fascinating" behavior. 04:49 Building Team Trust & Community Fostering camaraderie in the workplace by leading with kindness and mutual respect. 07:34 Mind Over Matter: Stress & Anger Understanding the roots of anger, avoiding repression, and cultivating patience. 15:18 Buddhist Wisdom in Daily Life Applying teachings like detachment, wisdom, and viewing challenges as spiritual opportunities. 18:20 Parenting & Leading by Example Teaching resilience to the next generation and embracing life’s "Black Diamond" trails. 23:43 Tech Distraction vs. Inner Focus Combatting modern distractions and prioritizing mindful presence over screen time. 33:41 Reflection & Setting Intentions Reviewing daily experiences constructively and aligning actions with purposeful goals. 35:34 Conclusion: Balance Through Acceptance Summarizing how intentional living and acceptance create true work-life harmony. WANT MORE? Find a meditation center near you https://kadampa.org/nkt-center-search... Listen to teaching clips: / nktikbu https://open.spotify.com/show/5QPCFEy... Subscribe to get notifications of new videos. Follow the Modern Buddhism Podcast Facebook: / modernbuddhismpodcast Instagram: / modernbuddhismpodcast TIkTok: / modernbuddhismpodcast Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7lgQNhb... Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.co.uk/podcasts/5... #modernbuddhismpodcast #buddhism #difficultpeople #stoicism #transformyourmindset #mindset #stability #compassion #optimism #fearless #motivation #InnerStrength #PositiveMindset