Roy Wood Jr.: Gets Real About Fear, Fame, & Fatherhood

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Roy Wood Jr., Trevor, and Eugene delve into Roy’s journey from growing up with an absentee father to becoming a father himself, and how writing his memoir helped him understand what fatherhood really means. The three also discuss how life’s circumstances have shaped their world view and comedy. If you haven't already.... Subscribe to the channel here: http://bit.ly/SubscribeTrevorNoah Or follow the podcast on your other favorite platforms... SiriusXM - Apple Podcasts - https://bit.ly/WhatNowOnApplePodcasts Spotify - https://bit.ly/WhatNowOnSpotify 00:00 – Who is Roy Wood Jr.? 00:12 – From suspension to stand-up: how comedy began 00:42 – Twenty-five years later, still grinding 01:00 – “You ready to start your grind?” 01:42 – Life after The Daily Show: losing your work family 03:33 – Running into old coworkers: the weirdness of goodbye 05:06 – Why leaving The Daily Show felt like leaving the army 06:25 – Why Americans mistake “nice” for friendship 07:24 – Office rules, booze rules, and fake smiles 08:58 – Roy’s workplace paranoia — and why it works 10:24 – The paranoia that keeps you safe (and broke) 11:56 – Corporate rules, interns, and boundaries 12:46 – Harassment training, clown school, and chaos 14:18 – Learning to fall — literally 15:23 – Radio days, Janet Jackson, and corporate fear 16:57 – How black radio shaped Roy’s hustle 18:25 – Cheap milk, expensive lessons: his dad’s obsession 20:19 – Roy’s father, the coupon king of Birmingham 23:00 – Saving pennies, losing time — what it taught him 24:24 – “We talked about everything… but me.” 25:46 – Riding shotgun through Birmingham’s Black thought 27:14 – The barbershop that ran the city 31:20 – Vision Land: the dream that became real 33:57 – What his father taught him about dreams and survival 35:18 – Why Roy looks like a man working undercover 37:31 – How Trevor discovered Roy’s comedy genius 39:16 – The most intense audition of his life 45:19 – The Confederate flag bit that changed everything 47:29 – Figuring out how Black you can be on TV 50:18 – The panic behind the professionalism 54:38 – “This has to work” — the fear that drives ambition 55:22 – Why Roy wrote The Man of Many Fathers 56:30 – When fatherhood becomes the mission 57:54 – Writing so your son will know you 59:54 – Discovering his father through Finding Your Roots 1:03:00 – What makes a real Father’s Day card? 1:06:28 – The absence that raises you 1:09:39 – The lessons money can’t buy 1:11:13 – From hustling concrete to stand-up comedy 1:14:15 – The Quikrete factory and the power of struggle 1:16:22 – Why everyone should work food service once 1:17:45 – Roy’s love affair with fast food 1:19:35 – Chicken wars and social commentary 1:21:00 – “I’ve become my father” — the realization 1:23:10 – How parenting forces you to audit your past 1:26:18 – What it means to be truly missed 1:29:49 – How his dad made him a father — and his son made him a child 1:33:20 – The cost of survival vs. the joy of living 1:36:50 – Teaching his son freedom of thought 1:40:40 – Why we must share our failures 1:43:57 – Seeing your parents as human 1:47:00 – The biggest blow to masculinity today 1:09:58 – Where are the fathers now? 1:11:57 – Rebuilding the village 1:13:00 – The art of forgiving your father