The Psychology Behind Flirting

Tejas Hullur March 6, 2025
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Flirting can be a mysterious social dance. Some people make it look effortless, while others struggle without knowing why. Is there a science to doing it better? In this video, we’re breaking down Flirting 101 and 201, uncovering the psychology behind what makes a good flirt. Using unseen footage from Dr. Thomas Smithyman, a clinical psychologist and author of Dating Without Fear, we’ll dive into what flirting actually is, why it works, and how to do it effectively. Check out Dating Without Fear by Dr. Smithyman: https://tinyurl.com/46b2w53w and Dr. T’s Youtube: https://youtube.com/@DrThomasSmithyman?si=vwnQ0LE691WBJday Written, Directed, Filmed, and Edited by Tejas Hullur and Ken Chwatek - @ChwatCity Behind the scenes content and more on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tejashullur Current subscribers: 138,300 SPECIAL THANKS TO: COLT KIRWAN -​⁠ @ColtKirwan SHERVIN SHARES - @ShervinShares ELISE #Flirtation #Dating #Psychology #Flirting #Science

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