8 Things I Wish I Knew Before I Turned 30 (Save Time & Money!)

Jay Shetty Podcast September 19, 2025
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I’m Jay Shetty host of On Purpose the worlds #1 Mental Health podcast and I’m so grateful you found us. I started this podcast 5 years ago to invite you into conversations and workshops that are designed to help make you happier, healthier and more healed. I interview experts, celebrities, thought leaders and athletes so that we can grow our mindset, build better habits and uncover a side of them we’ve never seen before. Click the Subscribe button to help us spread the love with On Purpose. – Sign Up For My Free Workshop re(NEW) You: https://www.renewyouworkshop.com/ – Order My Books: Think Like a Monk: https://thinklikeamonkbook.com/ 8 Rules of Love https://8rulesoflove.com/ – Follow me on Social Media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayshetty/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jayshetty Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JayShettyIW/

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What’s the biggest shift you wish you’d made sooner? What advice would you give your younger self before 30? In this special reflection, Jay opens up about the lessons he wishes he’d known before turning 30, insights that could have spared him time, energy, and unnecessary stress. Now, at 38, he shares eight counterintuitive truths from psychology and human behavior that have reshaped the way he lives, loves, and works. From realizing that people think about us far less than we imagine, to understanding that burnout comes more from a lack of meaning than from long hours, Jay invites us to reexamine the subtle habits and hidden fears that quietly drain our lives. These aren’t just ideas, they’re practical tools to help you stop overthinking, release old fears, and make choices that align with the life you truly want. In this episode, you’ll learn: How to Rely on Discipline Over Motivation How to See Most Fears as Echoes of the Past How to Use Belonging to Fuel Lasting Change How to Prevent Burnout by Finding Meaning How to Stop Your Brain From Distorting the Future Growth isn’t about waiting for the “right” moment—it’s about shifting how we see ourselves and the choices we make daily. The lessons Jay shares are powerful reminders that every season, good or bad, is temporary, and that true peace comes from living a life of meaning, not perfection. With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty Join over 750,000 people to receive my most transformative wisdom directly in your inbox every single week with my free newsletter. Subscribe here. Check out our Apple subscription to unlock bonus content of On Purpose! https://lnk.to/JayShettyPodcast What We Discuss: 00:00 Introduction 00:55 Are They Really Thinking About You? 04:26 Being Busy Doesn’t Always Mean Productive 07:33 Depth Over Breadth 11:04 Discipline Is Easier Than Motivation 14:14 Fear Is Just the Past on Repeat 18:27 You Are Who You Surround Yourself With 23:14 Are You Experiencing Burnout? Episode Resources: https://www.instagram.com/jayshetty https://www.facebook.com/jayshetty/ https://x.com/jayshetty https://www.linkedin.com/in/shettyjay/ https://www.youtube.com/@JayShettyPodcast http://jayshetty.me

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