10 Ways To Spot A Borderline Partner
Lise Leblanc
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Iām Lise Leblanc ā therapist, author, and trauma recovery coach helping men heal after toxic relationships. My videos and programs combine therapeutic insight, real-life wisdom, and step-by-step strategies to help you break trauma bonds, rebuild self-worth, and create emotionally healthy relationships. I post videos on Mondays so make sure to subscribe and turn your on notifications :) DISCLAIMER: THIS IS FOR INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY AND IS NOT INTENDED AS PROFESSIONAL ADVICE OR AS A SUBSTITUTE FOR MENTAL HEALTH CARE. For information about working with me privately, please visit my website: https://www.liseleblanc.ca
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In this video, I share 10 signs to help you detect whether your partner may be struggling with borderline personality disorder (or has high traits and tendencies of BPD). However, please do not try to diagnose your partner as this is an incredibly complex disorder with significant symptom overlap and co-occurring mental disorders. Instead, focus on behaviour and 1. whether your partner admits and takes responsibility for their feelings/behaviour; 2. Is taking appropriate measures to deal with their personality disorder; 3. Whether or not you are willing and able to deal with the intensity of this mental illness. 0:00-0:45: Introduction 0:45-2:07: Toxic Behaviors 2:07-4:01: #1 Idealization 4:01-4:30: #2 Sex Bombing 4:30-6:26: #3 Shifting 6:26-8:29: #4 She will seem vulnerable 8:29-11:28: #5 Child-like state 11:28-12:59: #6 Difficult to admit fault 12:59- 13:20 #7 Self-Harm and Suicide 13:20-13:59: #8 Creates loyalty binds 13:39-14:32: #9 You are losing yourself 14:32-14:47: #10 She is never satisfied 14:47-16:29: My best advice Click for free access to my 5 Toxic Tactics eReport: https://liseleblanc.com/optin-toxic-tactics Get Instant Access to the Toxic Relationship Recovery Online Program: https://liseleblanc.com/toxic-relationship-recovery Join my Men's Group Coaching Program: https://www.liseleblanc.ca/unbreakable-mens-group-coaching-program For information about private consultations, please check my website: https://www.liseleblanc.ca/coaching Please SUBSCRIBE for new videos every Monday and hit the notification bell so you don't miss anything! I would so greatly appreciate it. š If you have an idea of something you want me to talk about, please let me know. I take your requests seriously! About Lise Leblanc Lise Leblanc is a therapist, author, and life coach with over 20 years of experience in therapeutic, educational, and leadership roles. Follow LISE LEBLANC Through Other Platforms: FB: https://www.facebook.com/liseleblanc.ca IG: https://www.instagram.com/liseleblanc_official/?hl=en LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lise-leblanc-85119444/ DISCLAIMER: THE INFORMATION IN THIS VIDEO IS NOT INTENDED NOR IMPLIED TO BE A SUBSTITUTE FOR PROFESSIONAL ADVICE, DIAGNOSIS OR TREATMENT. Lise Leblanc does not provide personalized psychological, health, or legal advice. Any information or responses provided on YouTube are general and hypothetical, not individualized. This content is for informational purposes only and viewers should verify primary sources and/or seek professional services. Stories about clients are heavily modified to protect their identities, and teach without revealing confidential information. If you have thoughts about harming yourself, get help right away by taking one of these actions: Call 911 or your emergency services. Call a suicide hotline number. In the U.S., call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK (1-800-273-8255) In Canada: 1.833.456.4566 Call your mental health provider, doctor or other health care provider. Reach out to a loved one, trusted friend. #bpd; #borderlinepersonalitydisorder ; #borderline
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