What Really Happens When You Tell a Manipulator “No” |Toxic Family

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What really happens when you finally tell a manipulator “No”? What happens when you live in a family with a toxic person who is manipulative on every level? If you’ve ever tried to set a boundary with a toxic parent, partner, family member, or anyone who relies on control, you know one thing: They don’t take “no” lightly. In today’s deep-dive live chat, I break down the exact psychological reactions manipulators have when you stop playing along with their script. ------------------------------------------------------------------- #trauma #TOXICFAMILY #tamarahilllpc #psychology -------------------------------------------------------------------- DISCUSSED IN THIS VIDEO: 00:00 – Why Manipulators Hate Hearing “No” 00:00 – The Psychology of Control 00:00 – Punishment, Panic, and Emotional Fallout 00:00 – Boundary Testing and Escalation 00:00 – How to Stay Firm Without Losing Yourself 00:00 stages of manipulation (5 stages) 00:00 –COMMON ISSUES WITH MANIPULATORS 00:00 POSSIBLE IMPACT ON YOU ***There is live discussion in-between the content. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Mentioned In The Video: 1. Mattejat F, Remschmidt H. The children of mentally ill parents. Dtsch Arztebl Int. 2008 Jun;105(23):413-8. doi: 10.3238/arztebl.2008.0413. Epub 2008 Jun 6. PMID: 19626164; PMCID: PMC2696847. 2. Setoh P, Low PHX, Heyman GD, Lee K. Parenting by Lying. Curr Dir Psychol Sci. 2024 Feb;33(1):51-57. doi: 10.1177/09637214231206095. Epub 2023 Dec 5. PMID: 38343870; PMCID: PMC10849888. 3. Hawkins, R. (2024). The Negative Impacts of Parentification on Adolescents: A The Negative Impacts of Parentification on Adolescents: A Systematic Review Systematic Review. https://scholarsarchive.byu.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=11987&context=etd ‌4. Dariotis JK, Chen FR, Park YR, Nowak MK, French KM, Codamon AM. Parentification Vulnerability, Reactivity, Resilience, and Thriving: A Mixed Methods Systematic Literature Review. Int J Environ Res Public Health. 2023 Jun 21;20(13):6197. doi: 10.3390/ijerph20136197. PMID: 37444045; PMCID: PMC10341267. 5. Krener, P. (1988). Parent Salvage and Parent Sabotage in the Care of Chronically Ill Children. Archives of Pediatrics & Adolescent Medicine, 142(9), 945. https://doi.org/10.1001/archpedi.1988.02150090043020 ‌ ----------------------------------------------------------------------- SUBSCRIBE for more videos and chats: 👩‍💻 http://www.youtube.com/TamaraHtherapist ---------------------------------------------------------------------- *New videos are every other Tuesday 8:55pm est *Live chats every Friday 6:50pm est and Saturday 7:30pm est ----------------------------------------------------------------------- Music: –––––––––––––––––––––––––––------- 🎵 Track Info: Creator Music ----------------------------------------------------------------- DISCLAIMER: *Videos are provided for exploration and educational purposes only and does not constitute clinical suggestions or consultation for individual cases. If you or someone you know is having a medical emergency involving harm to self, please reach out to the suicide prevention hotline https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/. ---------------------------------------------------------------- *Contact me-------(BUSINESS INQUIRIES ONLY) I'm Támara, a licensed and internationally/Board certified trauma mental health therapist, with over 16 years experience. I specialize in helping children, teens, and families with mental illness. I also treat psychological/emotional trauma in children, teens, and adults. If you'd like to contact me or inquire about my international consultations, you may email me at [email protected]. *Please note: all consultations are charged a fixed rate fee based on the case content. *Mail me stuff! PO BOX 15747 Robinson Township, PA 15244 *FOLLOW ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA: Twitter - http://www.twitter.com/therapisttee Website - http://www.anchoredinknowledge.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thilltherapist/?hl=en ______________________________________ Copyright © All rights reserved. Permission must be given before videos are used.