Why Cheaters Defend Their Affair Partner (And What It Really Means)

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If your partner cheated, the last thing you expect is for them to defend the person they had an affair with. But it happens—often. And if you’re the faithful partner, this can feel like a deep betrayal all over again. Why would someone who says they want to rebuild the marriage stand up for the person who helped break it? In this video, I explain the psychology behind this reaction, why attacking the affair partner often backfires, and how to focus your anger in a way that actually helps you heal. Infidelity is one of the most painful challenges a relationship can face, but understanding the emotional stages behind it can give you clarity on what to do next. Mary Jo Rapini, MEd, LPC is a psychotherapist, specializing in intimacy, parenting, body image, and relationships. Reaction Reset is a self-help series that explains the psychology behind why we react negatively and how we can begin to make a positive change. Subscribe for a new episode every other Wednesday! Download PDF activities from my site for more help! https://www.maryjorapini.com/reactionreset Visit my website: http://www.maryjorapini.com Follow me on social media: Twitter: https://twitter.com/maryjorapini Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/maryjorapini Tumblr: https://maryjorapini.tumblr.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/maryjorapini