Why You Can't Change
Joe Hudson | Art of Accomplishment
@artofaccomplishmentAbout
I’m Joe Hudson, I co-founded the Art of Accomplishment with my wife, Tara, to help you find your way to fulfillment as effectively and quickly as possible. Our work is to teach people how to love themselves. So, we use this channel to share with you the powerful tools we use when coaching leaders and executives at the world's top companies (including Apple, Google & OpenAI) and the tools we've discovered from decades of learning from ancient spiritual traditions, modern neuroscience, and a lot of trial and error, that allows anyone to live a fulfilled and enjoyable life. If you'd like to transform the way you relate to yourself, and to connect more deeply with others by learning to connect more deeply with yourself, join our upcoming Connection Course: https://www.artofaccomplishment.com/course/the-connection-course Get our 7-part free guide to transformation by joining our newsletter: https://yt.artofaccomplishment.com/
Video Description
You try to change, fail and beat yourself up. Then you try again. Why does this cycle repeat? → Find your biggest opportunity for change (Free 5-min assessment): https://yt.artofaccomplishment.com/transformation-quiz We are taught that shame is a tool for correction. In reality, shame acts as a lock that freezes behaviors in place. In this video, Joe Hudson explains why "shoulding" on yourself is a biological dead-end and guides you through a specific writing exercise to identify exactly where shame is sabotaging your growth. ••• 🎧 More from the Art of Accomplishment Podcast: Apple: https://apple.co/3ezSoop Spotify: https://spoti.fi/3ETrfHA All platforms: https://artofaccomplishment.com/podcast ••• 📚 Chapters: 0:00 The lock holding you back 0:22 The stress of "should" 1:52 ✍️ Exercise: The 4-Year List (Pause here) 2:56 ✍️ Exercise Part 2: Find the shame 3:57 Why shame stagnates behavior 5:36 The first step toward change Mispellings / ---- #JoeHudson #ArtofAccomplishment #AOA #JoHudson #JoeHutson #JoeHodson #JoeHudsen #JoeHudsom #JoeHudon #JoeHudsn #JoeJudson #HoeHudson #JoeHusson #JoeHudsun #JoeHidson #JoHutson #JoeHusdon
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