Why clutter feels so heavy as a mom

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Clutter often adds to the mental load of motherhood in ways we don’t always notice. In this episode, we talk about why women tend to feel the weight of clutter more deeply, how “just in case” thinking fills our homes, and what true preparedness looks like. We walk through unfinished projects, kids’ toys, digital clutter, and paperwork, offering simple, realistic ways to let go without guilt. If you’ve been craving a calmer, more functional home without chasing perfection, join us for this practical and encouraging conversation! In this episode, we cover: - Why clutter affects women more than men and how a stressful home environment compounds the mental load of motherhood - The difference between true preparedness and keeping “just in case” items that never actually get used - A practical way to evaluate things you plan to fix someday and how to finally let them go without guilt - How community, shared resources, and skills can replace the pressure to own and store everything yourself - Rethinking modern convenience items, appliances, and technology that add more complexity than ease in daily life - Handling manuals, paperwork, and household information digitally to reduce piles, decision fatigue, and visual clutter - Creating simple systems for managing food storage, bulk buying, and pantry organization without overcomplicating it - Realistic strategies for managing kids’ toys, rotating items, and reducing daily cleanup without constant battles - How to shop more intentionally by slowing down purchases, making space before buying, and acknowledging your current season - Letting go of sentimental clutter while still preserving meaningful memories in ways that don’t overwhelm your home - The hidden weight of digital clutter, from endless photos and screenshots to the pressure modern moms feel to document every moment instead of simply living it Thank you for supporting the sponsors that make this show possible! Azure Standard is a family-owned company dedicated to providing you with high quality, affordable organic, natural, and non-GMO groceries, health, and household products. Place your order at https://www.azurestandard.com/ and use the code SIMPLE15 to receive 15% off your purchase. This promotion is only available for the first-time Azure customer order with a minimum of $100 order (orders to drop locations only). One time use per customer. ABOUT ROBYN Robyn Buchanan is a mom, wife, former nurse and YouTube creator. She started her minimalism journey because she was overwhelmed coming home to a cluttered house after working in a chaotic emergency department. Robyn lives on Vancouver Island in BC with her 3 teen boys and husband, 4 out of 5 of them have ADHD, including Robyn & her husband. She loves hiking, gardening and cooking, along with Jane Austen, Monty Python and John Wick movies. RESOURCES MENTIONED Check out Robyn’s previous appearances on SFL: Episode 219 | Prioritize Peace in Your Home: Build Your Decluttering Skills in the New Year https://simplefarmhouselifepodcast.com/2024/01/09/episode-219-prioritize-peace-in-your-home-build-your-decluttering-skills-in-the-new-year-robyn-of-minimalist-home/ Episode 268: Do You Have Too Much Stuff? Simplify Your Life Through Decluttering and Minimalism https://simplefarmhouselifepodcast.com/2024/12/17/do-you-have-too-much-stuff-simplify-your-life-through-decluttering-and-minimalism-robyn-buchanan-of-minimalist-home-episode-268/ Master the rhythm of sourdough with confidence in my Simple Sourdough course http://bit.ly/simplesourdoughcourse Gain the sewing knowledge and skills every homemaker needs in my Simple Sewing series https://bit.ly/simplesewingcourse Keep all my favorite sourdough recipes at your fingertips in my Daily Sourdough cookbook https://homesteadliving.com/daily-sourdough/?utm_source=farmhouseonboone&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=SRD CONNECT Robyn of Minimalist Home Website: https://minimalisthome.ca/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/robynbuchanan.yt YouTube: http://Youtube.com/@minimalisthome Lisa Bass of Farmhouse on Boone Blog: https://www.farmhouseonboone.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/FarmhouseonBoone Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/farmhouseonboone/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@farmhouseonboone Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/farmhouseonboone/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/farmhouseonboone/_created/ Do you have a question you’d like me to answer on the podcast? A guest you’d like me to interview? Submit your questions and ideas here: http://bit.ly/SFLquestions. GET MORE FROM THIS EPISODE Listen to this podcast episode: View full show notes on the blog: https://simplefarmhouselifepodcast.com/2025/12/23/decluttering-as-a-mom-where-to-start-and-what-to-let-go-robyn-of-minimalist-home-episode-321/