4 Crucial Steps to Know If Someone Is Right for You

Matthew Hussey March 9, 2025
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Matthew Hussey is a New York Times bestselling author, speaker, and coach specializing in confidence and relational intelligence. His YouTube channel is number one in the world for love life advice, with over half a billion views. He writes a weekly newsletter and is the host of the podcast Love Life With Matthew Hus­sey. Matthew provides monthly coaching to the members of his private community at LoveLifeClub.com. Over the past fifteen years, his proven approach has inspired millions through authentic, insightful, and practical advice that not only enables them to find love but also feel confident and in control of their own happiness.. → → Order Matthew's New York Times Bestselling Book At... https://LoveLifeBook.com ← ← Do you have a problem with a program? Contact Matthew’s team at: [email protected] Get dating advice you can use right now at Matthew's site: https://www.matthewhussey.com

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►► Answers Tailored to You in Real Time, When You Need Them Most. Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ▼ Don’t Miss Out! Subscribe to my YouTube channel now. I post new love life advice for you every weekend. ▼ We tell ourselves we have high standards—but is that actually true? Or are we just prioritizing the wrong things? And what if we meet someone who’s perfect on paper, but there’s no spark? Can chemistry slowly grow, or is it something we either feel instantly . . . or never will? For today’s new video, I sat down with Kristin Cavallari on her Let’s Be Honest podcast to talk about chemistry vs. compatibility, one of the biggest mistakes people make in dating, and what actually matters when you’re looking for a lasting relationship. ▼ Connect with Kristin ▼ Website → https://www.kristincavallari.com Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/kristincavallari X → https://x.com/kristincav ▼ Get My Latest Dating Tips and Connect With Me… ▼ Blog → https://www.matthewhussey.com/blog/ Facebook → https://facebook.com/CoachMatthewHussey Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/thematthewhussey TikTok → https://www.tiktok.com/@thematthewhussey ▼ Chapters ▼ 0:00 – 1:20 – One of the Hardest Decisions We’ll Ever Make 1:20 – 3:49 – Why Is Dating So Hard Today? 3:49 – 5:41 – “Settling for” or “Settling on”? 5:41 – 7:34 – Chemistry vs. Compatibility 7:34 – 10:40 – The 4 Levels of Importance in a Relationship 10:40 – 15:20 – Can Chemistry Grow? 15:20 – 19:19 – What Kind of Chemistry Is Worth Pursuing? 19:19 – 22:12 – Qualities of a Long-Lasting Relationship 22:12 – 23:07 – What Questions Should We Ask Early on?

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