Why Being Disliked Is Key to Finding Real Love

Matthew Hussey August 20, 2025
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Matthew Hussey is a New York Times bestselling author, speaker, and coach specializing in confidence and relational intelligence. His YouTube channel is number one in the world for love life advice, with over half a billion views. He writes a weekly newsletter and is the host of the podcast Love Life With Matthew Hus­sey. Matthew provides monthly coaching to the members of his private community at LoveLifeClub.com. Over the past fifteen years, his proven approach has inspired millions through authentic, insightful, and practical advice that not only enables them to find love but also feel confident and in control of their own happiness.. → → Order Matthew's New York Times Bestselling Book At... https://LoveLifeBook.com ← ← Do you have a problem with a program? Contact Matthew’s team at: [email protected] Get dating advice you can use right now at Matthew's site: https://www.matthewhussey.com

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►► Answers Tailored to You, In Real Time, When You Need Them Most. Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question Now at . . . → http://www.AskMH.com ▼ Get 40% off Cozy Earth sheets (and much more!) with code LOVELIFE: https://CozyEarth.com ▼ Don’t Miss Out! Subscribe to my YouTube channel now. I post new love life advice for you every weekend. ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in One Powerful Weekend. Learn More About my Weekend Retreat at → http://www.MHWeekendRetreat.com ▼ Get My Latest Dating Tips and Connect With Me… ▼ Blog → https://www.matthewhussey.com/blog/ Facebook → https://facebook.com/CoachMatthewHussey Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/thematthewhussey TikTok → https://www.tiktok.com/@thematthewhussey ▼ Connect with Stephen ▼ Youtube → https://bit.ly/StephenHusseyYoutube Instagram → http://bit.ly/StephenHusseyIG ▼ Connect with Audrey ▼ Instagram → https://bit.ly/AudreyHusseyIG ▼ Chapters ▼ 0:00 – 4:23 – Can Being Disliked Make Us More Attractive? 4:23 – 7:26 – An Unbroken Chain of Rapport 7:26 – 13:21 – Trust, Respect, and Security 13:21 – 15:00 – “If You’re for Everyone, You’re for No One” 15:00 – 17:08 – Connected From Around the World 17:08 – 18:44 – “The Courage to Be Disliked” by Fumitake Koga & Ichiro Kishimi 18:44 – 21:01 – Seeking Approval Enslaves Us 21:01 – 26:17 – Life Tasks Are Separate 26:17 – 28:07 – A Pillar of Mental Health 28:07 – 32:06 – Questions to Ask Yourself 32:06 – 36:13 – Figuring Out Who You Are and What You Like 36:13 – 38:23 – Our Superpowers 38:23 – 40:00 – Ask Unlimited Questions About Your Situation 40:00 – 46:58 – Relationships Are Horizontal, Not Vertical 46:58 – 52:43 – Listener Feedback 52:43 – 57:20 – Love Life Line: Key Relationship Conversations 57:20 – 1:08:26 – Steve’s Sleeves

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