"I Wasn't Put On Earth For Love" @bbcstrictly's Shirley Ballas on "Disastrous Relationships"

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Strictly Come Dancing’s head judge Shirley Ballas joins us for an exclusive conversation about her extraordinary life on and off the dance floor. She also reflects on the loss of her brother David, and why she now campaigns to raise awareness around men’s mental health and suicide prevention. From her early years on a Merseyside council estate to global fame, Shirley shares the resilience, heartbreak, and lessons that shaped her. She opens up about her family heritage, the bullying she endured through school years and beyond, and the sacrifices she made to rise to the top of the dance world. She speaks candidly about her relationships, turbulent love affairs and lifelong struggles with body image. Shirley also takes us behind the scenes of @bbcstrictly from a “disastrous” first audition to navigating the highs and lows of being on one of the biggest shows on television. Shirley shares: ◽ How discovering her family heritage reshaped her identity ◽ The bullying that left lasting scars - and how she found strength through dance ◽ Walking away from a marriage at the peak of her career - and the regrets that followed ◽ The pressures of body image in the dance world and her experiences with surgery ◽ The moment her Strictly audition went wrong - and how she turned it around ◽ The toll of online trolling and public criticism as head judge ◽ Why championing men’s mental health is so important to her ◽ What happiness means today Shirley Ballas, We Need To Talk If you’re struggling, you don’t have to face it alone. We’ve included support charities below: Campaign Against Living Miserably (CALM): https://g2ul0.app.link/npaQKXUV4Wb Samaritans - call on 116 123 or visit https://g2ul0.app.link/xghDmmYV4Wb Follow me here: https://www.instagram.com/needtotalk https://www.tiktok.com/@weneedtotalkpod Follow Shirley: Instagram: https://g2ul0.app.link/EGAa8y0V4Wb TikTok: https://g2ul0.app.link/rAaQ8f3V4Wb Best Foot Forward: https://g2ul0.app.link/So4hbb5V4Wb 00:00 Intro 02:08 Otto and Shirley's Heritage 06:49 Shirley's Upbringing in the Wirral 09:15 Shirley's Experience of School 12:10 How Shirley Became Obsessed with Dance 15:06 Moving to London at 16 18:40 Moving to Manchester and Starting Her Latin Dance Career 22:13 Class in the UK and How It Relates to the Dance Industry 29:56 How Shirley Met Corky Ballas 35:46 Does Shirley Regret Leaving Sammy for Corky? 44:42 Why Shirley and Corky's Relationship Came to an End 48:16 Tinder Ad 49:16 Adobe Express Ad 50:34 How Shirley Came to Be on Strictly Come Dancing 55:10 The Enduring Popularity of Strictly 01:00:37 Would Paul Go on Strictly? 01:01:41 Who Is Shirley's Fantasy Strictly Contestant? 01:03:05 Who Is the Biggest Surprise During Shirley's Time on Strictly? 01:04:32 The Importance of Shirley's Brother David to Her Life 01:14:41 Shirley's Battle with Body Image 01:22:12 Shirley Reads a Letter to Her Younger Self 01:25:44 Most Memorable Conversation 01:31:16 Shirley and Celebs Go Dating 01:37:38 Paul's Takeaways Sponsored by: Tinder: https://tinder.com/en-GB Adobe Express: https://ADOBE.LY/PAUL Get Your Tickets to the Love Better Tour! Bristol - https://g2ul0.app.link/mt5I2RKhrXb Cardiff - https://g2ul0.app.link/5mZIoBNhrXb Glasgow - https://g2ul0.app.link/FMk3N4PhrXb Birmingham - https://g2ul0.app.link/pJIj4XShrXb Manchester - https://g2ul0.app.link/4SQwKDXhrXb Brighton - https://g2ul0.app.link/BO71HSZhrXb London - https://g2ul0.app.link/gm6iB91hrXb SyncID MB01ITF1KF7PUUO