Ireland’s Past: When Marriage Meant Losing Your Job

Dr. Becky Spelman | The Human Pattern February 10, 2025
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Imagine being forced to quit your job just for getting married—or having no legal way to leave a broken marriage. Not long ago, this was reality in Ireland. For centuries, the Catholic Church shaped Ireland’s laws, culture, and even attitudes toward mental health. While faith provided community and comfort for some, it also contributed to guilt, shame, and silence around important issues. - Did you know? - Divorce was illegal until 1996, trapping many in unhappy marriages. - Abortion remained banned until 2018, forcing women to travel abroad for care. - Contraception wasn’t freely available until 1985—two years after I was born. - Until 1973, women in government jobs had to resign if they got married. Just one generation ago, women had little say over their own lives and bodies. While progress has been made, the effects of this history still linger. Understanding where we’ve come from helps us move forward. Disclaimer: The techniques shared in this post are for informational purposes only and are not a substitute for professional therapy, diagnosis, or treatment. If you are struggling with mental health challenges, we encourage you to seek support from a qualified mental health professional. #IrishHistory #WomensRights #MentalHealthMatters #CatholicChurch #KnowYourHistory #IrelandPastAndPresent #BreakingTheCycle #ProgressNotPerfection