Loving Someone with Untreated BPD: Why It Slowly Destroys You

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Being in a relationship with someone who has untreated borderline personality disorder (BPD) can feel like a whirlwind. At first, the connection is intoxicating—intense passion, deep chemistry, and a love that feels almost spiritual. But soon, things begin to shift. Small disagreements turn into explosive fights, the push-pull cycle takes over, and you find yourself trapped in what I call the borderline abyss—a place where logic doesn’t exist. In this video, I’ll break down what it’s really like to love someone with untreated BPD and why the relationship can become so destructive and addictive. I’ll also explain the psychological reasons you stayed, including the powerful effects of FOG (Fear, Obligation, and Guilt) and trauma bonding. Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share if this resonates with you. Click for free access to my 5 Toxic Tactics eReport: https://liseleblanc.com/optin-toxic-tactics Get Instant Access to the Toxic Relationship Recovery Online Program: https://liseleblanc.com/toxic-relationship-recovery Join my Men's Group Coaching Program: https://www.liseleblanc.ca/unbreakable-mens-group-coaching-program For information about private consultations, please check my website: https://www.liseleblanc.ca/coaching Please SUBSCRIBE for new videos every Monday and hit the notification bell so you don't miss anything! I would so greatly appreciate it. 💜 If you have an idea of something you want me to talk about, please let me know. I take your requests seriously! About Lise Leblanc Lise Leblanc is a therapist, author, and life coach with over 20 years of experience in therapeutic, educational, and leadership roles. Follow LISE LEBLANC Through Other Platforms: FB: https://www.facebook.com/liseleblanc.ca IG: https://www.instagram.com/liseleblanc_official/?hl=en LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lise-leblanc-85119444/ DISCLAIMER: THE INFORMATION IN THIS VIDEO IS NOT INTENDED NOR IMPLIED TO BE A SUBSTITUTE FOR PROFESSIONAL ADVICE, DIAGNOSIS OR TREATMENT. Lise Leblanc does not provide personalized psychological, health, or legal advice. Any information or responses provided on YouTube are general and hypothetical, not individualized. This content is for informational purposes only and viewers should verify primary sources and/or seek professional services. Stories about clients are heavily modified to protect their identities, and teach without revealing confidential information. If you have thoughts about harming yourself, get help right away by taking one of these actions: Call 911 or your emergency services. Call a suicide hotline number. In the U.S., call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK (1-800-273-8255) In Canada: 1.833.456.4566 Call your mental health provider, doctor or other health care provider. Reach out to a loved one, trusted friend. Timestamps: Introduction (0:00) The Start of BPD Relationships (1:07) The Push-Pull Cycle (3:18) Someone’s Story (4:17) Why YOU Stayed (6:21) FOG: Fear, Obligation, Guilt (8:30) #NPD #covertnarcissist #narcissist #narcissism #npd #narcissistic #femalenarcissist