7 Traits That Attract Borderline Partners to You
Lise Leblanc
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I’m Lise Leblanc — therapist, author, and trauma recovery coach helping men heal after toxic relationships. My videos and programs combine therapeutic insight, real-life wisdom, and step-by-step strategies to help you break trauma bonds, rebuild self-worth, and create emotionally healthy relationships. I post videos on Mondays so make sure to subscribe and turn your on notifications :) DISCLAIMER: THIS IS FOR INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY AND IS NOT INTENDED AS PROFESSIONAL ADVICE OR AS A SUBSTITUTE FOR MENTAL HEALTH CARE. For information about working with me privately, please visit my website: https://www.liseleblanc.ca
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Have you ever been in a relationship that started off like a dream—but slowly turned into an emotional rollercoaster? If you’re a caring, grounded, and logical person, you may unknowingly attract partners with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). In this video, I explain 7 specific traits that can make you a magnet for someone with BPD. These are the very qualities that often draw in intense, unstable, and emotionally demanding partners. Stay until the end—I’ll share the most powerful step you can take if you see these traits in yourself. Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for weekly videos on narcissistic abuse, BPD relationships, emotional manipulation, and healing from toxic dynamics. Timestamps: Introduction (0:00) 1: Emotionally Tuned-In (0:50) 2: Struggles with Boundaries (1:54) What is BPD? (4:15) 3: Willing to Prioritize Them (5:48) 4: Deep/Fast Connection (7:16) 5: Caretakers and Rescuers (8:10) 6: Unwavering Loyalty (9:07) 7: Tolerance for Emotions (10:08) How to Protect Yourself (10:58) Join my Men's Group Coaching Program: https://www.liseleblanc.ca/unbreakable-mens-group-coaching-program Get Instant Access to the Toxic Relationship Recovery Online Program: https://www.liseleblanc.ca/toxic-relationship-recovery For information about private consultations, please check my website: https://www.liseleblanc.ca/coaching Please SUBSCRIBE for new videos every Monday and hit the notification bell so you don't miss anything! I would so greatly appreciate it. 💜 If you have an idea of something you want me to talk about, please let me know. I take your requests seriously! About Lise Leblanc Lise Leblanc is a Therapist, Author, and Life Coach with over 20 years of experience in therapeutic, educational, and leadership roles. CONTACT LISE LEBLANC Through Other Platforms: FB: https://www.facebook.com/liseleblanc.ca IG: https://www.instagram.com/liseleblanc_official/?hl=en LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lise-leblanc-85119444/ DISCLAIMER: THE INFORMATION IN THIS VIDEO IS NOT INTENDED NOR IMPLIED TO BE A SUBSTITUTE FOR PROFESSIONAL ADVICE, DIAGNOSIS OR TREATMENT. Lise Leblanc does not provide personalized psychological, health, or legal advice. Any information or responses provided on YouTube are general and hypothetical, not individualized. This content is for informational purposes only and viewers should verify primary sources and/or seek professional services. Narratives about clients are heavily modified to protect their identities, using blurred details to teach without revealing confidential information. If you have thoughts about harming yourself, get help right away by taking one of these actions: Call 911 or your emergency services. Call a suicide hotline number. In the U.S., call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK (1-800-273-8255) In Canada: 1.833.456.4566 Call your mental health provider, doctor or other health care provider. Reach out to a loved one, trusted friend. #BPDRelationships #ToxicRelationships #borderlinepersonalitydisorder #RelationshipAdvice #EmotionalAbuse #DatingWithBPD #EmpathAndBPD #SignsOfBPD #BPDPartner #TraumaBonding
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