Shopping Was Never Self-Care: How Capitalism Feminized Retail Therapy

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“This Isn’t Self-Care.” We’ve been told to treat ourselves, to shop our way through heartbreak, burnout, and bad days. From Sephora hauls to designer lip kits, consumer culture has cleverly disguised itself as healing. But what if retail therapy was never really about care? In this video essay, we dive into how capitalism feminized emotional spending, turning women’s exhaustion into profit—and marketing it back to us as empowerment. We trace this emotional conditioning from 1950s department stores and postwar advertising to Sex and the City, rom-com makeover montages, and today’s viral TikTok girl math trend. Along the way, we examine how consumerism has been sold as a survival tool, and why the products we’re told to buy in the name of “self-love” often leave us feeling emptier than before. This video isn’t here to shame you for spending—we all have those “add to cart” moments. But it is here to gently question the systems behind them. Because real self-care isn’t trending, and it definitely doesn’t come with free shipping. It’s quiet. It’s messy. And it starts when we stop letting capitalism define what healing looks like. If you’ve ever shopped to feel better, only to realize it didn’t help, you’re not alone. What does real self-care look like for you? Let’s talk in the comments. Join this channel to get access to perks: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCM4hiMCyAEMxibzIYrOKD5Q/join #RetailTherapy #SelfCareCulture #GirlMath #EmotionalSpending #CapitalismAndConsumerism #FeministVideoEssay #ShoppingAddiction #PopCultureAnalysis #MindlessConsumerism #ShoppingWasNeverSelfCare #LauraJaneAtelier #BeautyStandards #TikTokCulture #CleanGirlAesthetic #EmotionalLabor