Why Men Pull Away Right When Things Get Good

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Why do men disappear right when the relationship is going great? In this video, we break down the psychological reasons behind this frustrating pattern—from vulnerability panic to attachment styles to why his brain treats intimacy like a threat. Ever wondered why everything's perfect one week and he's "needing space" the next? We're diving into the science of emotional claustrophobia, commitment anxiety, oxytocin-induced panic, and the self-sabotage patterns that make men pull away when things get good. In This Video: The neuroscience behind vulnerability panic Why emotional intimacy triggers fight-or-flight Attachment theory and the intimacy allergy The fantasy vs. reality trap How oxytocin can actually make men anxious Commitment terror and future tripping Self-worth issues and impostor syndrome Why most men don't even know why they're pulling away Whether you're trying to understand relationship patterns, decode confusing behavior, or just love quirky psychology content—this one's for you. 👍 Like this video if you've ever experienced the disappearing act 💬 Comment your theories or experiences below 🔔 Subscribe for more psychology breakdowns on dating and human behavior TIMESTAMPS: 00:03 - #10: The Vulnerability Panic Button 01:41 - #9: The Phantom Independence Crisis 03:04 - #8: Success Means Expectations 04:39 - #7: The Intimacy Allergy 06:08 - #6: The Fantasy Was Better 07:50 - #5: Emotional Claustrophobia 09:21 - #4: The Oxytocin Betrayal 10:42 - #3: The Commitment Terror Timeline 12:20 - #2: They're Afraid They're Not Enough 13:58 - #1: They Don't Actually Know Why