An Abusive Man's Most Twisted Tricks

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Join our 12-Week Group Coaching Programs with me and Dr. Peter Salerno https://strongerthanbefore.ca/group-coaching-rise-and-rebuild-or-trauma-bond-recovery Take the free 2-minute Trauma Bond Quiz https://kcdplmm983r.typeform.com/traumabondquiz Work With Me Book a 1:1 Clarity Call https://strongerthanbefore.ca/book-a-session Trauma Bond Recovery Course https://strongerthanbefore.ca/trauma-bond-recovery Website https://strongerthanbefore.ca About Lisa Sonni Abusive relationship educator and trauma bond recovery expert. Certified Trauma Recovery Coach, creator of the Break & Rebuild Method, and author of four abuse-recovery books. Host of Relationships Uncensored Podcast. #NarcissisticAbuse #TraumaRecovery #NarcissisticAbuseRecovery #TraumaBonding #EmotionalAbuse #NarcissisticPersonalityDisorder #HealingFromTrauma #ToxicRelationships ⚠️ DISCLAIMER: This content is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not therapy or medical advice. Always seek professional help for your specific situation. 00:00 – The Illusion of Love 00:28 – Why You Miss the Signs 01:24 – Mirroring 02:15 – Fake Connection 02:25 – Performed Vulnerability 03:12 – The Sympathy Trap 03:47 – Cognitive Dissonance 04:56 – Future Faking 05:46 – Victim Positioning 06:30 – Entitlement & Accountability 07:14 – Insecurity vs. Abuse 07:56 – Strategic Kindness 08:43 – Intermittent Reinforcement 09:05 – Subtle Devaluation 09:56 – Intentional Manipulation 10:13 – Trauma Bonding 10:34 – Manipulation as Instinct 11:04 – The Predictable Pattern 11:37 – Falling for the Reflection 12:02 – Leaving the Illusion 12:13 – Aftermath & Self-Blame 12:56 – Traits He Targeted 13:02 – Seeing the Game 13:08 – Rebuilding Yourself 13:19 – Real Trust vs. Tricks 13:31 – Healing Programs 13:46 – Final Message