Casual or Long-Term? How to Find Out Without Overthinking

Dr. Becky Spelman | The Human Pattern February 7, 2025
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Not sure where you stand with someone? Should you ask or just play it cool? The best approach? Honest communication. Instead of guessing, have a natural, open conversation. Try saying: “I’m really enjoying getting to know you. What kind of connection are you looking for right now?” This keeps things light yet clear—and their response will tell you a lot. If they dodge the question or seem unsure, that’s important information too. Playing it cool might feel safer, but confidence in asking helps you make the right choice for you. Because it’s always better to know than to wonder. Disclaimer: The techniques shared in this post are for informational purposes only and are not a substitute for professional therapy, diagnosis, or treatment. If you are struggling with mental health challenges, we encourage you to seek support from a qualified mental health professional. #DatingAdvice #HonestCommunication #RelationshipClarity #KnowWhereYouStand #ConfidentDating #DatingTips #EmotionalMaturity #HealthyRelationships