How avoidance of confrontation leads to more conflict

Dr. Becky Spelman January 21, 2025
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How avoidance of confrontation leads to more conflict. Think staying silent will make things better? Think again. When you avoid addressing issues, you’re not dodging discomfort—you’re inviting more of it into your life. Silence isn’t neutral. It can feel dismissive and invalidating to loved ones who want to connect. Over time, that unspoken frustration builds up, leading to even bigger conflicts down the road. Avoidance doesn’t solve problems; it creates misunderstanding, resentment, and tension. The more you avoid, the harder it becomes to rebuild trust. What you’re running from doesn’t disappear—it grows. The only way forward? Face it. Speak up. Break the cycle. #CommunicationMatters #FaceYourFears #ConflictResolution #SpeakUp #HealthyRelationships #BreakTheCycle #EmotionalWellness #PersonalGrowth

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